Harassment, Abuse and Toxic People: Finding Freedom Through Psychoanalysis in Lyon or via Teleconsultation

How to recognise a relationship involving harassment, abuse or coercive control?

When certain behaviours gradually take hold, it can become difficult to understand what is happening and to trust one's own perceptions.
A consultation can help put words to the situation, examine what is being experienced, and explore the effects of this relationship on how the person perceives themselves.

Why do I remain attached to someone who causes me pain?

Attachment does not simply disappear because a relationship has become painful.
Fear of losing the other person, guilt, emotional dependency, hope for change, or loss of self-confidence can all make separation difficult.
Understanding this attachment does not mean justifying the other person's behaviour. It can help explore what maintains the bond.

Why do I feel guilty when it is the other person who is hurting me?

Guilt can arise even when a person is subjected to unjust or abusive behaviour.
Repeated criticism, manipulation, or the habit of constantly questioning oneself can all contribute to this guilt.
It is important to be able to regain one's bearings and, when the situation poses a danger, to also seek appropriate protection and support.

How can I rebuild myself and make sense of what happened after harassment or abuse?

After an experience of harassment or abuse, fear, shame, anger, or a loss of confidence may remain.
The work can focus on what happened in the relationship, the emotions felt, the impact on self-image, and any patterns of repetition.
This is not about blaming someone who has been a victim of harassment or abuse.
When there is ongoing violence or danger, the priority remains ensuring safety and accessing appropriate support services.
Psychic work can allow a person to put into words what was experienced, understand its effects, and gradually recover a sense of self less defined by that experience.

Why do I doubt myself so much after having been harassed or abused?

When one's perceptions, decisions, or emotions are constantly called into question, self-image can become fragile.
After such an experience, self-doubt may persist.
Psychoanalytic work can help process this experience and explore what it has changed in one's relationship to oneself and to others.

I offer psychoanalysis consultations in Lyon, both in-person and via teleconsultation, to help put into words the effects of these situations on the individual.

A first meeting allows us to get acquainted, clarify your request, and explore whether a psychoanalytic approach suits your situation and expectations.